Unoffendable
Part Two
Francis Frangipane
"Then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another . . . and because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold" (Matt. 24:10-12 KJV).
The Sequence That Leads To Apostasy
In our last teaching we looked at offenses and examined the lethal effect an offended spirit could have upon our lives. We discussed how the only way to not be permanently offended was to attain the unoffendable heart of Jesus Christ.
Attaining Christ's heart is not a minor issue. Remember, Jesus warned that, in the last days, "many" would be offended. A wounded spirit is not the same thing as an offended spirit - an offense occurs when we do not process our wounds in a Christlike manner. Indeed, an offended spirit, left unattended and brooding in our minds, will soon manifest as betrayal, hatred and cold love. Jesus said offenses would be the ultimate cause that leads many to fall from faith. Listen well: Jesus linked the real cause of apostasy not to wrong doctrines, but wrong reactions.
Aren't right doctrines important? Of course, but we can have right information and still have a wrong response. Doctrinal information can be upgraded and refined, but Proverbs warns that someone "offended is harder to be won than a strong city," and "contentions" between people "are like the bars of a castle" (Prov. 18:19).
Yes, beware of false leaders, but more deceitful than false prophets or teachers is our own heart when it is offended (Jer. 17:9). Are you living with an offended heart? If so, you are gradually slipping away from true Christianity, which is known for its agape love.
Thus, dealing with an offended heart is vital in maintaining ongoing spiritual maturity. For this reason, we need to look again at the things that offend us.
False Expectations
Unrealistic or exaggerated expectations inevitably will cause others to fall short and offend us. Some desire their spouse or pastor or friends to meet their every need. However, at the deepest level, our soul was created to find its security in God, not man. When the Almighty truly becomes our security, our peace flows from our awareness of His love and unlimited capabilities. As people who put their confidence in God, we can live comfortably with imperfect people around us.
Still, the very power of our expectations can choke out the sweetness of a personal relationship. Suppose that, instead of burdening people with our expectations, we simply learned to appreciate them for themselves - no strings attached. What if we approach family and friends with gratitude for what they are doing rather than disappointment for what they failed to do?
Suppose that a husband, instead of expecting a full course dinner from his wife each night, learned to appreciate whatever she was able to offer him? Then, instead of his failed expectation degrading into an offense, there would be a living, sincere appreciation for the food his wife prepared. I know we have arrangements by common consent, but in reality, a wife is under no obligation to cook special meals or do housekeeping. You did not marry her to be your housekeeper, but to become one with her.
Or imagine a husband who works a long, tiring job. However, his wife expects that he will work another two hours at home or go shopping with her or listen attentively about her problems. What if, instead, she welcomed him at the door and sincerely thanked him for daily giving himself to support their family? What if she met him, not with demands, but with appreciation? Perhaps she might even massage his shoulders and, because of love, have his favorite meal prepared.
You see, expectations can seem like legitimate aspects of a relationship, but they can also cause us to be disappointed and offended when people fall short. I have known situations in the past where my expectations actually blinded me to the efforts being made by a loved one. They were trying to improve in an area I was unaware of because my focus was preset upon a different expectation. I should have been grateful and encouraging.
Of course, today I discuss issues and expectations with those close to me, but the weight of my expectation is not on others, but upon myself to be Christlike and sensitive to those around me. I put a premium upon enjoying the uniqueness of others, sincerely thanking God for their contribution to my life.
When God Himself Offends Us
The fact is, false expectations can become a source of many deep offenses. However, one of the worst offenses we can suffer is when God Himself purposely offends us.
In 2 Kings 5, we read the story of when Naaman, a Syrian general, sought to be healed of leprosy by Elisha, the prophet. When Naaman and his entourage arrived at Elisha's house, Elisha didn't greet him personally, but instead sent his servant with a word/cure for Naaman. It was a simple assignment for the military leader: wash seven times in the Jordan River. However, the cure offended Naaman. Why didn't the prophet himself come out? Why this muddy Jordan? Scripture says that "Naaman was furious."
An offended spirit is an angry spirit. In this case, Naaman was beyond mad; he was furious. Do you find that you are always mad at a particular person? It's because they have offended you and you haven't forgiven them. Naaman was offended at Elisha, but what was the real cause of Naaman's offense? Listen to his words. He said, "Behold, I thought, ‘He will surely come out to me, and stand and call on the name of the Lord his God, and wave his hand over the place, and cure the leper'" (v. 11).
Catch the phrase, "Behold, I thought . . ." In truth, Naaman was not offended by Elisha, but by his own failed expectations. He probably spent many hours envisioning the moment of healing. He even pictured himself testifying of how the man of God healed him. When it didn't happen according to his plan, he was offended.
Friends, before the Lord heals you or assigns you some new, elevated position of service, He will often offend you. Why? What is it that gets offended in us? Usually, it is our pride. We come to God desiring physical healing, but the Lord wants us not only to be healed, but to be humble. Yes, God heals us through our faith, but there our times when our own pride keeps us from receiving the method of God's healing. The Lord offends us to humble us, so He can give us grace. Faith works through grace, but God only gives grace to the humble.
Look at how often Jesus offended people before He healed them. Once, He actually spit on the ground, made mud and put it on a blind man's eyes, and then told him to walk across town that way! Imagine if you were next in the healing line and saw what the guy before you had to do. Admit it, we each would be looking for another healing ministry, one that is a little less offensive! On another occasion He told a woman who came seeking her daughter's healing that she was an unclean dog; another time, He stuck His fingers in the ears of a man to heal his deafness. The Lord often offended people before He healed them.
If we would learn to humble ourselves in the offense, we would discover that the apparent offense was, in realty, a door that led into the manifest power of God. When Jesus called the Canaanite woman a "dog," instead of being offended, she said, "Yes, Lord, but even the dogs feed on the crumbs" (Matt. 15:27). When Jesus told the man to walk across town with mud in his eyes, the man didn't argue or ask for a more dignified healing; he humbled himself and came back seeing. When Elisha told Naaman to dip in the Jordan seven times, the offense wounded him. Yet, when he humbled himself, his leprosy was replaced with the skin of a little child. His skin became as a child, because his heart, through humility, became as a child.
Maybe you haven't received your healing or breakthrough yet because to walk the path set before you is beneath your dignity. Maybe you need to get rid of your dignity and go to that Pentecostal or Baptist church you've been making fun of, then ask them to pray for you. God wants to heal you, but He also wants to renew and transform you with His grace.
Overcome Offenses
When we study what Jesus taught, it is obvious that He came to make us "unoffendable." Consider: He says that if someone slaps you on one cheek, offer him the other. He said to love our enemies and bless those who curse us. What He's really doing is showing us how an unoffendable heart of love overcomes all adversity.
We pray, "Lord, I want to change." To answer our prayer, He sometimes must put us in situations that perfectly offend us. The offense itself awakens our need of grace. Thus, the Lord precipitates change by first offending the area of our soul He desires to transform. He does not expect us to merely survive this adversity, but to become Christlike in it. Ask Joseph in the Old Testament: the "land of offense" became the land of his anointing and power. Listen my friends: the destiny God has for man unfolds or dies at the junction of offense. How we handle offense is the key to our tomorrow.
"Those who love [God's] law have great peace, and nothing causes them to stumble" (Ps. 119:165).
Lord, grant me that new creation heart that can walk as Jesus walked, through a world of offenses without stumbling. I want to see everything as an opportunity to pray, everything as an opportunity to become Christlike. Lord help me to interpret offenses as opportunities that lead to transformations. Grant me, Lord Jesus, the pulse and beat of Your unoffendable heart. Amen.
Saturday, 23 June 2007
Thursday, 14 June 2007
Unoffendable
Unoffendable
By Francis Frangipane
“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh” (Ezek. 36:26).
God has a new heart for us that cannot be offended, an “unoffendable” heart. Beloved, possessing an unoffendable heart is not an option or a luxury; it’s not a little thing. Consider: Jesus warns that, as we near the end of the age, a majority of people will be offended to such a degree that they fall away from the faith. Listen carefully to His warning:
"Then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another . . . and because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold" (Matt. 24:10-12 KJV).
“Many” will be offended; the love of “many” will grow cold. My prayer is that we will hear His words with holy fear.
When we allow an offense to remain in our hearts, it causes serious spiritual consequences. In the above verse Jesus named three dangerous results: betrayal, hatred and cold love. When we are offended with someone, even someone we care for, we must go to them. Otherwise, we begin to betray that relationship, talking maliciously behind their back to others, exposing their weaknesses and sins. We may mask our betrayal by saying we are just looking for advice or counsel, but when we look back, we see we have spoken negatively to far too many people. Our real goal was not to get spiritual help for ourselves but to seek revenge toward the one who offended us. How is such action not a manifestation of hatred? For an offended soul, cold love, betrayal and hatred go hand-in-hand.
People don’t usually stumble over boulders; they stumble over stones, relatively small things. It may be that the personality of someone in authority bothers us and soon we are offended. Or, a friend or family member fails to meet our expectations, and we take an offense into our soul. Beloved, if we will “endure to the end,” we will have to confront the things that bother us.
When Jesus warns that we need endurance, He is saying that it is easier to begin the race than finish it. Between now and the day you die, there will be major times of offense that you will need to overcome. You might be in such a time right now. Do not minimize the danger of harboring an offense.
No one plans on falling away; no one ever says, “Today, I think I’ll try to develop a hardened, cold heart.” Such things enter our souls through stealth and it is only naiveté that assumes it couldn’t happen to us. I know many people who consistently become offended about one thing or another. Instead of dealing with the offenses, these people carry them until the weight disables their walk with God. You may be doing fine today, but I guarantee you, tomorrow something will happen that will inevitably disappoint or wound you; some injustice will strike you, demanding you retaliate in the flesh.
The Root Of Offense
An offense can strike at our virtues or sins, our values or our pride. It can penetrate and wound any dimension of the soul, both good and evil. I once brought a series of messages about gossip. Most people saw their sin and repented, but a core group of gossips were greatly offended and ultimately left the church. When the Holy Spirit exposes sin in someone’s soul, if we refuse the opportunity to repent, we often become offended at the person who brought the teaching. Instead of humbling our hearts, we are outraged at the pastor or teachers in the church. Truthfully, most of the time, I have no idea who specifically needs to hear what I’m teaching, but God knows.
Paul told Timothy to “reprove, rebuke, exhort” (see 2 Tim. 4:2). He didn’t say, “exhort, exhort, exhort,” but exhortation is what we receive in most churches. Certainly, we need to be encouraged, but there are also times, beloved, when we need to be reproved and rebuked. Today, there are preachers who are afraid to preach truth for fear people will react and leave the church. The end result is a church of easily offended people who cannot grow beyond their inability to accept correction.
People don’t change by exhortation alone. There are areas in all of us that need to be confronted and disciplined. The pastor who refuses to discipline and correct those in sin is in disobedience to God. He is unable to lead people into any truly transforming changes in their lives; they will not “endure to the end” if they cannot be corrected (see Matt. 24).
We need to become a people who say, “Lord, show me what needs to change in me.” I’m talking about growing up. A wise man will receive a rebuke and he will prosper. But a fool rejects his father’s discipline (see Prov. 15:5).
Personal Offense
An offense can wound our pride when we are not recognized for our good works or ministry. This happened to my wife and I long ago while in California. We were young pastors at a conference when the main leader decided to personally greet each minister and wife. He greeted the couple on our right and then turned to his staff to ask a question. A moment later he returned, but passed us by and went to the couple on our left. Everyone around us saw we were bypassed. We were embarrassed and offended. But my wife wisely observed that we could allow this thing to hurt us or we could see it as an investment in sensitivity toward other people’s feelings. The offense taught us how others feel when they are ignored. Do you see this? You must make that offense become an opportunity to become more Christlike.
The occasions for taking offense are practically endless. Indeed, we are daily given the opportunity to either be offended by something or to possess an unoffendable heart. The Lord’s promise is that He’s given us a new heart: a soft, entreatable heart that can be filled with His Spirit and abound with His love.
Lord, forgive me for being so easily offended and for carrying offenses. Father, my heart is foolish and weak. Grant me the unoffendable heart of Jesus Christ. Amen.
By Francis Frangipane
“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; and I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh” (Ezek. 36:26).
God has a new heart for us that cannot be offended, an “unoffendable” heart. Beloved, possessing an unoffendable heart is not an option or a luxury; it’s not a little thing. Consider: Jesus warns that, as we near the end of the age, a majority of people will be offended to such a degree that they fall away from the faith. Listen carefully to His warning:
"Then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another . . . and because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold" (Matt. 24:10-12 KJV).
“Many” will be offended; the love of “many” will grow cold. My prayer is that we will hear His words with holy fear.
When we allow an offense to remain in our hearts, it causes serious spiritual consequences. In the above verse Jesus named three dangerous results: betrayal, hatred and cold love. When we are offended with someone, even someone we care for, we must go to them. Otherwise, we begin to betray that relationship, talking maliciously behind their back to others, exposing their weaknesses and sins. We may mask our betrayal by saying we are just looking for advice or counsel, but when we look back, we see we have spoken negatively to far too many people. Our real goal was not to get spiritual help for ourselves but to seek revenge toward the one who offended us. How is such action not a manifestation of hatred? For an offended soul, cold love, betrayal and hatred go hand-in-hand.
People don’t usually stumble over boulders; they stumble over stones, relatively small things. It may be that the personality of someone in authority bothers us and soon we are offended. Or, a friend or family member fails to meet our expectations, and we take an offense into our soul. Beloved, if we will “endure to the end,” we will have to confront the things that bother us.
When Jesus warns that we need endurance, He is saying that it is easier to begin the race than finish it. Between now and the day you die, there will be major times of offense that you will need to overcome. You might be in such a time right now. Do not minimize the danger of harboring an offense.
No one plans on falling away; no one ever says, “Today, I think I’ll try to develop a hardened, cold heart.” Such things enter our souls through stealth and it is only naiveté that assumes it couldn’t happen to us. I know many people who consistently become offended about one thing or another. Instead of dealing with the offenses, these people carry them until the weight disables their walk with God. You may be doing fine today, but I guarantee you, tomorrow something will happen that will inevitably disappoint or wound you; some injustice will strike you, demanding you retaliate in the flesh.
The Root Of Offense
An offense can strike at our virtues or sins, our values or our pride. It can penetrate and wound any dimension of the soul, both good and evil. I once brought a series of messages about gossip. Most people saw their sin and repented, but a core group of gossips were greatly offended and ultimately left the church. When the Holy Spirit exposes sin in someone’s soul, if we refuse the opportunity to repent, we often become offended at the person who brought the teaching. Instead of humbling our hearts, we are outraged at the pastor or teachers in the church. Truthfully, most of the time, I have no idea who specifically needs to hear what I’m teaching, but God knows.
Paul told Timothy to “reprove, rebuke, exhort” (see 2 Tim. 4:2). He didn’t say, “exhort, exhort, exhort,” but exhortation is what we receive in most churches. Certainly, we need to be encouraged, but there are also times, beloved, when we need to be reproved and rebuked. Today, there are preachers who are afraid to preach truth for fear people will react and leave the church. The end result is a church of easily offended people who cannot grow beyond their inability to accept correction.
People don’t change by exhortation alone. There are areas in all of us that need to be confronted and disciplined. The pastor who refuses to discipline and correct those in sin is in disobedience to God. He is unable to lead people into any truly transforming changes in their lives; they will not “endure to the end” if they cannot be corrected (see Matt. 24).
We need to become a people who say, “Lord, show me what needs to change in me.” I’m talking about growing up. A wise man will receive a rebuke and he will prosper. But a fool rejects his father’s discipline (see Prov. 15:5).
Personal Offense
An offense can wound our pride when we are not recognized for our good works or ministry. This happened to my wife and I long ago while in California. We were young pastors at a conference when the main leader decided to personally greet each minister and wife. He greeted the couple on our right and then turned to his staff to ask a question. A moment later he returned, but passed us by and went to the couple on our left. Everyone around us saw we were bypassed. We were embarrassed and offended. But my wife wisely observed that we could allow this thing to hurt us or we could see it as an investment in sensitivity toward other people’s feelings. The offense taught us how others feel when they are ignored. Do you see this? You must make that offense become an opportunity to become more Christlike.
The occasions for taking offense are practically endless. Indeed, we are daily given the opportunity to either be offended by something or to possess an unoffendable heart. The Lord’s promise is that He’s given us a new heart: a soft, entreatable heart that can be filled with His Spirit and abound with His love.
Lord, forgive me for being so easily offended and for carrying offenses. Father, my heart is foolish and weak. Grant me the unoffendable heart of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Sunday, 10 June 2007
People will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel
Hello there....
Just an update there. This week, we had our presentation for one of our modules - financial engineering... it's one of the more interesting subjects around, but also the most difficult. Our group had to present a topic on Quanto Swaps... Initially, it sounded easy, but the mathematics and formulae behind the derivation of the pricing was nothing less than a nightmare. Fortunately though, one of the teammates covered that portion. I had some understanding of the formulae, but not all...
The gist of this episode is that we had a bit of disagreement with one of the team members - a very nice guy but who might have made some mistakes in portraying his presentation in slides. His ideas were correct, but the way he portrayed the information was not audience-friendly... we couldnt understand what he was saying, let alone a large audience of 30 people. Long and short was that there was some miscommunication about one technical point. So, given that we didn't have much time left to the final presentation, two of us decided to split up his portion to reduce the risk that he presented something wrongly. Anyway, I must admit that we didn't do it in the nicest manner. I was more focused on the goal of doing a good presentation but forgot that this poor guy must have felt really bad. i was told later that he practised very hard for his portion of the presentation (but actually, it was still pretty bad, really). I was told that I acted like a "boss"... haha... perhaps so... since i am the oldest in the group, it's hard not to (in the light that rest of the group are all so young... this guy is 24 years old... I could really be his boss in real life - anyway, that's a different story)
To make matters worse, i found out later that he was not wrong after all. We just had different angles of seeing the issue. I apologised to him for the misunderstanding and reverted to his angle, but had to redo the slides to make them audience-friendly : my own fault for taking over his part. I had to spend an entire night redoing everything... serves me right. Anyway, the presentation went very well. I think our group was the best one for the day. The other groups were pretty bad, i must say.
So, I apologised to him and i think he felt better after that - so... i think all's well... but it was an important lesson for me. Even though i think i can be soooooo right, I can still be wrong... or rather, the other person could be right as well... we just have to be patient to listen carefully... secondly, it's ok to make mistakes... just own up, apologise, and try to make good the damage. But this quote came ringing in my head... "people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel"... this rings loud and clear for me, esp in my own life. hehe... oh well... the pain will fade, but of course, i will still remember the degree of the pain. (hope i make sense here).
So much for a lazy Sunday afternoon post. (i did go to church this morning... sermon was pretty good... that's another story)
Ciao.
B
Just an update there. This week, we had our presentation for one of our modules - financial engineering... it's one of the more interesting subjects around, but also the most difficult. Our group had to present a topic on Quanto Swaps... Initially, it sounded easy, but the mathematics and formulae behind the derivation of the pricing was nothing less than a nightmare. Fortunately though, one of the teammates covered that portion. I had some understanding of the formulae, but not all...
The gist of this episode is that we had a bit of disagreement with one of the team members - a very nice guy but who might have made some mistakes in portraying his presentation in slides. His ideas were correct, but the way he portrayed the information was not audience-friendly... we couldnt understand what he was saying, let alone a large audience of 30 people. Long and short was that there was some miscommunication about one technical point. So, given that we didn't have much time left to the final presentation, two of us decided to split up his portion to reduce the risk that he presented something wrongly. Anyway, I must admit that we didn't do it in the nicest manner. I was more focused on the goal of doing a good presentation but forgot that this poor guy must have felt really bad. i was told later that he practised very hard for his portion of the presentation (but actually, it was still pretty bad, really). I was told that I acted like a "boss"... haha... perhaps so... since i am the oldest in the group, it's hard not to (in the light that rest of the group are all so young... this guy is 24 years old... I could really be his boss in real life - anyway, that's a different story)
To make matters worse, i found out later that he was not wrong after all. We just had different angles of seeing the issue. I apologised to him for the misunderstanding and reverted to his angle, but had to redo the slides to make them audience-friendly : my own fault for taking over his part. I had to spend an entire night redoing everything... serves me right. Anyway, the presentation went very well. I think our group was the best one for the day. The other groups were pretty bad, i must say.
So, I apologised to him and i think he felt better after that - so... i think all's well... but it was an important lesson for me. Even though i think i can be soooooo right, I can still be wrong... or rather, the other person could be right as well... we just have to be patient to listen carefully... secondly, it's ok to make mistakes... just own up, apologise, and try to make good the damage. But this quote came ringing in my head... "people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel"... this rings loud and clear for me, esp in my own life. hehe... oh well... the pain will fade, but of course, i will still remember the degree of the pain. (hope i make sense here).
So much for a lazy Sunday afternoon post. (i did go to church this morning... sermon was pretty good... that's another story)
Ciao.
B
Wednesday, 6 June 2007
Exams are coming (boring lectures)
i am actually typing this outside the lecture theatre in which a class is being held. It was boredom to the extreme. The class consists of students presenting some research topics on financial instruments assigned previously by the prof. But most of them don't do a good job at presenting. I must say that though a lot of work has been put into the material, the delivery does less than justice for them.
Which brings the point that the professor said.... knowledge is secondary... the important thing is how you carry yourself. I know. And I know that many people get on with life with such empty pretenses. But although that is how the world works, I beg to differ with the prof. i still feel that hard work and down to earthiness is important. The world is a bubble and all around is fluff anyway. So, when the music stops, what is left is the core knowledge or skill that one has. No point talking about marketing and presentation skills when one does not have anyone to market to. Or rather, taken to the extreme, sales and marketing can only take place when there is something to sell or there is someone to sell to.
Too often, we take for granted the things that come to us 'naturally' e.g. rice, water, air, other necessities... these are considered essential for life.But we don't care a hoot because we assume they will always be there... (at the back of our minds, we think this way). But one day, when the shaking comes, we will soon realise that what is ignored by many will be that which is most precious.
Anyway, enough of this philosophical jargon. What i wanted to say is that Man looks on the outside but God looks at the inside. What is more important is of course the inside. The heart, the skills we have... but so long as we are living in this world, we need to strike a balance. We also need to market ourselves... so taht we do not become irrelevant to the world in need of the gospel. So... strike a balance. but get the priorities right....
now... i think my break is up. priority is to go back to class and listen to the presenters drone on...
ciao for now.
Barns
(and yes... exams are near... gosh!!!)
Which brings the point that the professor said.... knowledge is secondary... the important thing is how you carry yourself. I know. And I know that many people get on with life with such empty pretenses. But although that is how the world works, I beg to differ with the prof. i still feel that hard work and down to earthiness is important. The world is a bubble and all around is fluff anyway. So, when the music stops, what is left is the core knowledge or skill that one has. No point talking about marketing and presentation skills when one does not have anyone to market to. Or rather, taken to the extreme, sales and marketing can only take place when there is something to sell or there is someone to sell to.
Too often, we take for granted the things that come to us 'naturally' e.g. rice, water, air, other necessities... these are considered essential for life.But we don't care a hoot because we assume they will always be there... (at the back of our minds, we think this way). But one day, when the shaking comes, we will soon realise that what is ignored by many will be that which is most precious.
Anyway, enough of this philosophical jargon. What i wanted to say is that Man looks on the outside but God looks at the inside. What is more important is of course the inside. The heart, the skills we have... but so long as we are living in this world, we need to strike a balance. We also need to market ourselves... so taht we do not become irrelevant to the world in need of the gospel. So... strike a balance. but get the priorities right....
now... i think my break is up. priority is to go back to class and listen to the presenters drone on...
ciao for now.
Barns
(and yes... exams are near... gosh!!!)
Friday, 1 June 2007
A "mini-Miracle" of sorts
Today, we got back our scripts for our mid term examinations - Goodness gracious. I took an initial look and I got 23.5 upon 60!! Gosh!!! How can that be?? I was expecting about 30 plus points thereabouts. I knew I didn't ace the exams but surely, I didn't do THAT badly? I was quite surprised when they first posted our grades on the webpage. I didn't expect to do so badly.
However, I found out that the teaching assistant had forgotten to add five marks for my last question - that means, my total should have been 28.5, which would bring my grade to 3.0 after rounding up (still not a pass grade, which is 4.0). Nevertheless, it would improve my average score together with my assignment (which my classmates have painstakenly taken time to do and managed to get a 5.5 average out of 6.0 so far) - I said my classmates because, I contributed almost nothing to the assignments - no clue how to do - I am totally helpless when it comes to Matlab programming for Empirical statistical analysis - Yes.... I am lousy with programming. Perhaps I should pick up some programming in the holidays.
And I felt that I should check again - guess what??!! I found that he marked one of my questions wrongly!! I got another 2 marks - this brings my total to 30.5!! This doesn't change my final grade - but still - it made me feel better about myself. I'm not THAT bad. I just need to work harder. So - the mid terms was within my expectations after all. I just didn't expect them to be so slip shod with the counting on the marks and the marking and I didn't expect them to be so strict with the grade. Come on... 30.5 out of 60 is more than half the marks. Conventionally, this should be a pass - it's more than 50%!! And this is a Masters programme for goodness' sake! Why does one need 66.7% of the marks to pass??? It really baffles me! The professors here are a bit crazy.
But I am really thankful to God for bringing me thus far - My grades are improving (finally). And I am better able to understand what's going on in class. The squiggly formulae no longer scare me. I am able to look at all those differential equations and feel proud that I actually understand what they say. Amazing. Previously, I would just lament and stare into blank space. It was really tough... but I think my brains are adjusting. But... I still have a lot more to work on. Still far away... so gotta work harder - and depend on God's grace.
Ciao for now.
Barns
However, I found out that the teaching assistant had forgotten to add five marks for my last question - that means, my total should have been 28.5, which would bring my grade to 3.0 after rounding up (still not a pass grade, which is 4.0). Nevertheless, it would improve my average score together with my assignment (which my classmates have painstakenly taken time to do and managed to get a 5.5 average out of 6.0 so far) - I said my classmates because, I contributed almost nothing to the assignments - no clue how to do - I am totally helpless when it comes to Matlab programming for Empirical statistical analysis - Yes.... I am lousy with programming. Perhaps I should pick up some programming in the holidays.
And I felt that I should check again - guess what??!! I found that he marked one of my questions wrongly!! I got another 2 marks - this brings my total to 30.5!! This doesn't change my final grade - but still - it made me feel better about myself. I'm not THAT bad. I just need to work harder. So - the mid terms was within my expectations after all. I just didn't expect them to be so slip shod with the counting on the marks and the marking and I didn't expect them to be so strict with the grade. Come on... 30.5 out of 60 is more than half the marks. Conventionally, this should be a pass - it's more than 50%!! And this is a Masters programme for goodness' sake! Why does one need 66.7% of the marks to pass??? It really baffles me! The professors here are a bit crazy.
But I am really thankful to God for bringing me thus far - My grades are improving (finally). And I am better able to understand what's going on in class. The squiggly formulae no longer scare me. I am able to look at all those differential equations and feel proud that I actually understand what they say. Amazing. Previously, I would just lament and stare into blank space. It was really tough... but I think my brains are adjusting. But... I still have a lot more to work on. Still far away... so gotta work harder - and depend on God's grace.
Ciao for now.
Barns
A Greater Song
A Greater Song
Matt Redman, Paul Baloche
Intro:
Verse 1:
Who could imagine a melody
true enough to tell of Your mercy
Who could imagine a harmony
sweet enough to tell of Your love
I see the heavens proclaiming You day after day
And I know in my heart that there must be a way
Chorus:
To sing a greater song,
a greater song to You on the earth
To sing a greater song,
a greater song to You on the earth
Verse 2:
Who could imagine a symphony
grand enough to tell of Your glory
Our highest praise but a feeble breath,
a whisper of Your thunderous worth
I see the heavens proclaiming You day after day
And I know in my heart that there must be a way
Chorus 2:
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher,
hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher,
hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher,
hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher, higher, higher
Coda 1:
I see the heavens proclaiming You day after day
And I know in my heart that there must be a way
Other:
Coda 2:
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
(Repeat twice)
Coda 3:
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
(Repeat as desired)
Matt Redman, Paul Baloche
Intro:
Verse 1:
Who could imagine a melody
true enough to tell of Your mercy
Who could imagine a harmony
sweet enough to tell of Your love
I see the heavens proclaiming You day after day
And I know in my heart that there must be a way
Chorus:
To sing a greater song,
a greater song to You on the earth
To sing a greater song,
a greater song to You on the earth
Verse 2:
Who could imagine a symphony
grand enough to tell of Your glory
Our highest praise but a feeble breath,
a whisper of Your thunderous worth
I see the heavens proclaiming You day after day
And I know in my heart that there must be a way
Chorus 2:
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher,
hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher,
hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher,
hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher, higher, higher
Coda 1:
I see the heavens proclaiming You day after day
And I know in my heart that there must be a way
Other:
Coda 2:
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
(Repeat twice)
Coda 3:
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
Hallelujah, we wanna lift You higher
(Repeat as desired)
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